Cum o fi cand va creste?

Cum o fi cand va creste?

Stapanii cainelui din imagini, parinti ai unei fete de 11 ani, mi-au dat o tema de gandire: Ce te faci cand creste copilul?

EN: The owners of the dog in the pictures, parents of an 11 years old girl, gave something to think about: What do you do when the child grows up?

Stiind ca mai e mult pana cand Vlad va fi adolescent, nu mi-a trecut nicio secunda prin cap cum va fi momentul in care nu imi va mai raspunde la telefon, nu ne vom mai pupa de buna dimineata, de noapte buna, de zi buna, cand nu va mai striga “mama” cu toata dragostea ce incape acum in acest cuvant. Mai ales ca ma gandeam ca adolescent va fi abia pe la 15 – 16 ani. Ei bine stapanii acestui caine cu rochita cu volane, pe care i-am intalnit intamplator in timpul sedintei foto, ne-au spus mai in gluma mai in serios ca si-au luat câinele ca sa aiba din nou un copil, caci fiica lor de 11 ani a devenit adolescenta in toata regula. “11 ani????” intreb eu. “Da.” raspunde tatal promt. “Bine, ea dintotdeauna a fost mai independenta.” – “Aualeu. Pai si Vlad al nostru e genul independent.” – “Atunci macar e bine sa stiti ca vine mai repede decat ai crede momentul. I-am intrebat si pe parintii altor colege de-ale ei, iar ei ne-au confirmat aceleasi simptome de adolescent care nu mai are chef sa iti dea raportul si care nu stii la ce ora va ajunge acasa.” Oh, Doamne. Si voi sunteti parinti de adolescenti precoce? Cum faceti fata? Nici nu vreau sa ma gandesc cum o fi…

Mai bine va las si ma intorc la Perfectu’ meu aflat in plina copilarie, care tocmai se joaca cu niste bolovani de pamant. Suntem plecati cu rulota intr-o mini-vacanta in Delta, asa ca ne dragalim de dimineata pana seara in căsuța noastra de 10m2.

In poze port: camasa Zara, blugi H&M, cercei vintage (luati dintr-un targ de antichitati din Berlin) si pantofi Acne. Pozele sunt realizate la restaurant Kane.

EN: Knowing that Vlad’s teenage years are still far away, it never once crossed my mind how it’s going to be like when he won’t pick up the phone when I call him, how we won’t give each other good morning, good night, have a nice day kisses, when he won’t call me “mum” with all the love that fits into this word anymore. Especially since I thought that he’ll only hit puberty around 15 or 16. Well the owners of the dog in ruffles, which I accidentally met during the photo shooting, told me more seriously than as a joke that they got the dog to have a new child, because their 11 year daughter has become a full grown teenager. “11 years????” I asked. “Yes.” answered the father promptly. “Well, she has always been more independent.” – “Ouch. Vlad is also the independent type.” – “Well at least you should know that the moments comes sooner than you imagine. We have also asked parents of colleagues of hers and they confirmed the same teenager symptoms who isn’t in the mood anymore to keep you up to date and who you don’t know about what she/ he is going to be home.” Oh, God. Are you also the parents of early teens? How do you handle it? I don’t even want to know how it’s going to be like…

I better leave you to get back to my Perfect One who is in his full childhood period, who is just playing with some dirt. We are with the trailer on a mini-vacation in the Danube Delta, so we are cuddling from dusk ’til dawn in our 10m2 home.

In the pictures I am wearing: Zara shirt, H&M jeans, vintage earrings (bought in an antique market from Berlin) and Acne shoes. The pictures are taken at Kane restaurant.