Te iubesc

Te iubesc

Pentru ca in tinuta asta port fata detașabila inimioara, despre care Vlad spune ca “arata cat de mult te iubesc pe tine, mama, si pe tine, tata”, m-am gândit să vă povestesc cum am reacționat la prima declarație de iubire din partea lui.

 

EN: Because in this outfit I am wearing the detachable cover little heart, the one which Vlad says about that it “shows how much I love you, mum, and you, dad”, I thought about telling you how I reacted to his first love declaration.

Eu ii spun zilnic lui Vlad ca il iubesc. Nu cred ca asta ar avea cum să aducă ceva rau in educatia si in dezvoltarea lui. Ba dimpotrivă. Stiu ca pe vremea când noi eram copii alta era perceptia, dar eu am ajuns sa cred ca spunandu-i de cate ori ai ocazia copilului cât de mult il iubesti nici nu il alinti, nici nu cred ca ii scazi din insemnatate acestei declarații. Poti sa speri ca el se va simti mereu iubit, în siguranta, va avea mai mare incredere in el si nu ii va fi teama sa împărtășească aceeași iubire in viata altora.

Aceasta fiind introducerea, acesta fiind contextul, am sa va povestesc o întâmplare recenta din familia noastră.

Imediat după ce s-a trezit din somn, a venit la noi in pat sa ne spuna “Buna dimineata, mama. Buna dimineata, tata.” După acest moment dragalas, urmează invariabil, în fiecare dimineata, Marea Pupaceala. Ne pupam unii pe alții pana ne albim. Intr-un astfel de schimb de pupicuri, Vlad imi spune:

“Te iubesc enorm, mama.”

imi mai spusese cate un “si eu” sau cate un “te iubesc” ca raspuns la “te iubesc”-ul meu, dar pana atunci nu avusese niciodata initiativa si, in orice caz, asa un avant in declaratii de iubire. Parea o replică scoasă din adâncul inimioarei lui. Asa ca ii raspund:

“Doamne, Vlad, cand imi spui asta simt asa… o bucurie in tot corpul!”

si apoi raspunsul lui:

“Eu nu simt nimic!”

va dati seama ca ne-a bufnit râsul si pe mine si pe Radu.

“Tata tu simti ceva in corp?”

“Da, Vlad, si eu simt.”

si apoi continuă el zâmbind si usor mirat de asa o descoperire haioasa:

“Eu nu simt NIMIC! Eu zic asa ca asa ziceți si voi!”.

Mi s-a parut genială declaratia. Atat de sinceră și atât de amuzantă. Totul e în mintea noastră de parinti nebuni de atata iubire…

In poze port: Hooded Moon UNISEX Black & Red (măsură XS) cu fata detasabila Inima, pantaloni Mango, sacou H&M, pantofi Acne Studios, ochelari vintage, cercei Nina Ricci vintage. Iar tinuta in miscare:

EN: I tell Vlad every day that I love him. I don’t believe this could do any harm to his education and development. On the contrary. I know that back in the days when we were children, the perception was different, but I have come to think that by telling your child as often as you can that you love him/ her, you neither spoil him nor do you take anything away from its meaning. You can only hope that he will fell loved all the time, safe, that he’ll have more confidence in himself and that he won’t be afraid to share the same love with others.

Now that I made an introduction, I will tell you about a recent happening in our family.

Right after he woke up, he came to our bed to tell us “Good morning. mum. Good morning. dad.” After this cute moment, the Great Kissing follows undoubtedly. We give each other kisses until we turn white. In one of those kisses exchange, Vlad tells me:

“I love you so much, mum.”

He had told me a “me too” or an “I love you” as an answer to my “I love you”, but up until then he never had the initiative, not to mention such an enthusiasm in statements of love. It seemed like a line straight out of his little heart. So I answer back:

“God, Vlad, when you say this to me I feel such a…joy in my entire body!”

and then his answer:

“I don’t feel anything!”

you can imagine how Radu and I both started laughing.

“Dad, do you feel anything in your body?”

“Yes, Vlad, I feel it too.”

and then he goes on smiling and slightly in wonder of such a funny discovery:

“I don’t feel ANYTHING! I only say it because you say it too!”.

I thought his statement was genius. So honest and funny. It’s all just in the mind of us crazy with love parents…

In the pictures I am wearing: Hooded Moon UNISEX Black & Red (size XS) with the detachable cover Heart, Mango pants, H&M jacket, Acne Studios shoes, vintage sun glasses, Nina Ricci vintage earrings. And above the outfit on the move.